Matrimony for the Indian community in Australia & New Zealand
Nobody sees your photos
until you decide.
Women are never listed, never browsed, and never charged. Every man is government-ID verified before anyone sees him. A real matchmaker makes each introduction — and tells you why.
- men per woman on existing platforms*
- 10 : 1
- the real ratio in the census†
- 1.15 : 1
- profiles shown before verification
- 0
*Founder research on the largest existing platforms, Australia & New Zealand, 2026. †Sikh population, ABS Census 2021.
The problem
The women exist. They've just stopped showing up.
The census says our community is almost evenly split. Every platform shows ten men for every woman. The gap isn't demographic — it's what those platforms do to her.
01
She is put on display
Her photo sits in a public grid that anyone can scroll — including her cousin, her colleague, and the man from the gurdwara. In a community this small, that is the whole reason she never signs up.
02
She gets a firehose
Three hundred unread interests in the first week, most from people who never read her profile. Nobody can process that, so she stops opening the app, and then she deletes it.
03
Nobody represents her
The platforms replaced the matchmaker with a search box. There is no one to make an approach on her behalf, ask the awkward questions, or carry a "no" back without anyone losing face.
So we removed all three.
How it works
Different for her. Different for him.
For her · free, always
- 1
Join in two minutes
No photos required to start. When you add them, they are private by default and stay that way until you approve each person individually.
- 2
Your matchmaker calls you
A woman from our team — never from your own city, and bound by a confidentiality agreement — learns what you actually want.
- 3
Up to three introductions a week
Each with a written reason. Say yes, say no, or pause for a month. There is no inbox to fall behind on.
For him · from $29.99/month
- 1
Apply and verify
Government ID plus a live selfie check before anyone sees you. It takes three minutes and it is the reason a reply here means something.
- 2
Tell us what you want
A proper intake — values, family, timeline, dealbreakers — rather than a filter panel. No one here is scrolled past.
- 3
Introductions come to you
There is no directory of women to browse. You receive curated introductions, each with a reason, and a conversation opens only when she says yes.
The Vichola
Somebody who speaks for you.
The vichola is the person who has always done this work in our community — knows both families, makes the approach, asks what nobody wants to ask directly. Every platform quietly removed that role and handed you a search box. We hired it back.
She is a real person
Your matchmaker is a named woman from the community, paid properly for the work, and you can ask for someone else without giving a reason.
Never from your own city
Melbourne members are looked after from Auckland and Sydney, and the reverse. She will not run into you at a wedding.
She negotiates on your behalf
On the Vichola tier she approaches families for you, handles expectations and timelines, and carries the difficult answers both ways.
Software helps her, not replaces her
Our tools keep her notes, remember what you said, and make sure you never repeat yourself. The judgement is hers.
Built in, not promised
Privacy you don't have to trust us on.
Most platforms put privacy on a policy page. We put it in the structure, so it holds even on a bad day.
Private by default
Photos are hidden until you approve a specific person. Not a paid feature. Not a toggle you have to find.
No directory of women
There is no page where men scroll through women. It does not exist, so it cannot leak, be scraped or be screenshotted.
Verified or invisible
Government ID and a liveness check for every man before he is introduced to anyone. Unverified profiles are shown to no one.
No inbox
A maximum of three introductions a week, each with a reason. Turn them off for a month without deleting anything.
Family View link
A curated, read-only profile you can send your parents on WhatsApp. They see what you choose. No account needed.
Gone in one tap
Delete your profile and it is deleted — no retention, no "reactivate your account" emails six months later.
Pricing
She pays nothing. He pays for a matchmaker, not a search box.
Women
Free, always
Every feature. No paid upgrade. No exceptions.
Men · Search
$29.99 AUD/month
Verified membership and curated introductions, self-directed.
Men · Vichola
$199 AUD/month
A dedicated matchmaker who represents you and negotiates on your behalf.
The Success Refund: marry someone you met here and we refund up to 12 months of Search.
Full pricing and FAQ →Be among the first.
We are opening Melbourne and Auckland first, one matchmaker at a time. Founding members get their first three months of Search free; women are free regardless.
You're on the list.
We'll email you once, when we open in your city. If you left a number, a matchmaker — never someone from your own city — will call to introduce herself.