What members see

Search is the front door. The matchmaker is the layer on top.

Both sides search. She sees his photos and his verification; he sees hers only when she approves. Contact details are never on the page. And when either of them would rather someone made the approach, that is what an introduction looks like.

Everyone on this page is a sample. The design is real.

Her search

Your search

Sample
  • Melbourne + 50 km
  • Sikh
  • 27–33
  • Vegetarian
  • Citizen or PR
  • Melbourne + 50 km
  • Sikh
  • 25–30
  • Vegetarian
  • Any status

Verified men who match your preferences. Newest first. Women whose preferences you match, and who chose to be found. Newest first.

ID verified

Jasdeep, 29

Melbourne · Civil engineer

  • Sikh
  • Vegetarian
  • Citizen

Matches 7 of 7 of your preferences

ID verified

Amrit, 31

Melbourne · GP

  • Sikh
  • Punjabi
  • PR

Matches 6 of 7 of your preferences

ID verified

Gurpreet, 28

Dandenong · Electrician, own business

  • Sikh
  • Vegetarian
  • Citizen

Matches 6 of 7 of your preferences

ID verified

Manveer, 30

Melbourne · Data analyst

  • Sikh
  • Punjabi
  • Citizen

Matches 5 of 7 of your preferences

Photo on her approval

Simran, 27

Melbourne · Physiotherapist

  • Sikh
  • Vegetarian
  • PR

Matches 7 of 7 of your preferences

5 of 5 interests left today

Photo on her approval

Harleen, 29

Melbourne · Pharmacist

  • Sikh
  • Punjabi
  • Citizen

Matches 6 of 7 of your preferences

4 of 5 interests left today

Photo on her approval

Navjot, 26

Geelong · Primary teacher

  • Sikh
  • Vegetarian
  • Citizen

Matches 6 of 7 of your preferences

3 of 5 interests left today

Photo on her approval

Jasleen, 30

Melbourne · Accountant

  • Sikh
  • Punjabi
  • PR

Matches 5 of 7 of your preferences

2 of 5 interests left today

Every man here is ID-verified. You see his photos; he sees yours only after you approve him. Your phone and email are never shown to anyone. Photos appear when she approves your request. You can send 5 interests a day, so make them count. Her contact details are never shown; she shares them if she wants to.

His search

Your search

Sample
  • Melbourne + 50 km
  • Sikh
  • 27–33
  • Vegetarian
  • Citizen or PR
  • Melbourne + 50 km
  • Sikh
  • 25–30
  • Vegetarian
  • Any status

Verified men who match your preferences. Newest first. Women whose preferences you match, and who chose to be found. Newest first.

ID verified

Jasdeep, 29

Melbourne · Civil engineer

  • Sikh
  • Vegetarian
  • Citizen

Matches 7 of 7 of your preferences

ID verified

Amrit, 31

Melbourne · GP

  • Sikh
  • Punjabi
  • PR

Matches 6 of 7 of your preferences

ID verified

Gurpreet, 28

Dandenong · Electrician, own business

  • Sikh
  • Vegetarian
  • Citizen

Matches 6 of 7 of your preferences

ID verified

Manveer, 30

Melbourne · Data analyst

  • Sikh
  • Punjabi
  • Citizen

Matches 5 of 7 of your preferences

Photo on her approval

Simran, 27

Melbourne · Physiotherapist

  • Sikh
  • Vegetarian
  • PR

Matches 7 of 7 of your preferences

5 of 5 interests left today

Photo on her approval

Harleen, 29

Melbourne · Pharmacist

  • Sikh
  • Punjabi
  • Citizen

Matches 6 of 7 of your preferences

4 of 5 interests left today

Photo on her approval

Navjot, 26

Geelong · Primary teacher

  • Sikh
  • Vegetarian
  • Citizen

Matches 6 of 7 of your preferences

3 of 5 interests left today

Photo on her approval

Jasleen, 30

Melbourne · Accountant

  • Sikh
  • Punjabi
  • PR

Matches 5 of 7 of your preferences

2 of 5 interests left today

Every man here is ID-verified. You see his photos; he sees yours only after you approve him. Your phone and email are never shown to anyone. Photos appear when she approves your request. You can send 5 interests a day, so make them count. Her contact details are never shown; she shares them if she wants to.

Same product, two doors. The card tells you how many of your own preferences the person matches, which is a thing we can explain, instead of a percentage we would have to invent.

The matchmaker's introduction

One introduction. Two sides of it.

For women who chose matchmaker-only, and for men on the Vichola tier.

What she sees

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Harpreet · your matchmaker, Auckland

Introduction 2 of 3 this weekOne introduction · she has already seen your profile

Sample
ID + liveness verified

Simran hasn’t shared her photos with you yet.

They appear the moment she says yes. She has already seen yours.

Simran shared her photos with you · just now

Jasdeep, 29Simran, 27

MelbourneMelbourne

Civil engineer · 5′11″Physiotherapist · 5′4″

  • Sikh
  • Punjabi
  • Vegetarian
  • Citizen
  • Sikh
  • Punjabi
  • Vegetarian
  • PR

Why Harpreet thinks so

“You both said Sundays at your parents’ aren’t negotiable. He’s the one who cooks in his flat, which you said mattered. And you asked for someone who has built something — he started his own firm at 26 and still does the Saturday langar shift.”“She wants someone who has done hard things — you moved here at twelve and built a firm. You both cook, you both keep Sundays for family, and she is the first person I have spoken to who also thinks Hokitika is underrated.”

Something to ask him about: the six months he spent in Hokitika.

He can’t see your photos or message you unless you say yes.

Simran decides whether this goes further. You’ll hear either way within a week — Harpreet carries the answer, not an app notification.

Harpreet has opened a conversation for you both. She’ll check in after your first call.

  • His photo is visible from the start. He was ID-verified before she ever saw him.
  • The reason is in her matchmaker’s own words, not a percentage.
  • “Not for me” is one tap, and he is never told she looked.

What he sees

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Harpreet · your matchmaker, Auckland

Introduction 2 of 3 this weekOne introduction · she has already seen your profile

Sample
ID + liveness verified

Simran hasn’t shared her photos with you yet.

They appear the moment she says yes. She has already seen yours.

Simran shared her photos with you · just now

Jasdeep, 29Simran, 27

MelbourneMelbourne

Civil engineer · 5′11″Physiotherapist · 5′4″

  • Sikh
  • Punjabi
  • Vegetarian
  • Citizen
  • Sikh
  • Punjabi
  • Vegetarian
  • PR

Why Harpreet thinks so

“You both said Sundays at your parents’ aren’t negotiable. He’s the one who cooks in his flat, which you said mattered. And you asked for someone who has built something — he started his own firm at 26 and still does the Saturday langar shift.”“She wants someone who has done hard things — you moved here at twelve and built a firm. You both cook, you both keep Sundays for family, and she is the first person I have spoken to who also thinks Hokitika is underrated.”

Something to ask him about: the six months he spent in Hokitika.

He can’t see your photos or message you unless you say yes.

Simran decides whether this goes further. You’ll hear either way within a week — Harpreet carries the answer, not an app notification.

Harpreet has opened a conversation for you both. She’ll check in after your first call.

  • Her photos stay veiled until she says yes. Not blurred as a tease — withheld.
  • He can express interest. He cannot message, save, or come back to look again.

The full profile

A biodata, if a biodata were worth reading.

Introduced to you by Harpreet, Auckland

Jasdeep, 29

Civil engineer · Melbourne

  • ID verified
  • Liveness verified
  • Phone verified

In his words

I came to Melbourne at twelve not speaking much English and spent the first year mostly watching cricket to learn it. I still think that was the right approach.

I started my own firm at 26 because I wanted to build things I could drive past. It is small and I like it that way. Outside work: the langar kitchen on Saturdays, my sister’s kids on Sundays, and one properly long drive somewhere every few months — the last one was the West Coast of the South Island, which I will talk about for too long if you let me.

I am looking for someone who is building something of her own, whatever that is, and who would rather laugh at my cooking than pretend it’s good.

At a glance

Born
Ludhiana, Punjab
Grew up
Ludhiana until 12, then Melbourne
Lives
Melbourne — west
Work
Civil engineer · runs a 6-person firm
Education
B.Eng (Civil), RMIT
Height
5′11″ · 180 cm
Faith
Sikh · keeps kesh · goes most Sundays
Diet
Vegetarian · doesn’t drink
Languages
Punjabi, English, Hindi
Status
Australian citizen
Open to living in
Melbourne, Sydney, Auckland
Family
Parents in Melbourne · one younger sister, married

What matters to him, in order

  1. 1

    Family close by

    Sunday lunch at his parents’ is the fixed point of his week. He would like it to stay that way.

  2. 2

    Building things

    Left a salaried job at 26 to start his own practice. He is proud of it and doesn’t pretend otherwise.

  3. 3

    Quiet faith

    Practising, not preaching. Saturday langar shift, most Sundays at the gurdwara, and no interest in policing anyone else’s.

  4. 4

    An equal

    Both parents worked; he cooks better than his mother will admit. He isn’t looking for someone to run a house.

  5. 5

    Children, in time

    Yes, and not immediately. He would rather get the first two years right.

Photos he shared

Hokitika, last winter
Saturday shift, langar
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Harpreet’s note to you

“I spent forty minutes with Jasdeep. He is steadier than he is exciting, and I think that is what you told me you wanted after last time. Ask him about the West Coast and see if you can get a word in.”

On the Family View link, parents see this page with the photos and the matchmaker’s note removed — exactly what she chooses to show them.