Jasdeep, 29
Melbourne · Civil engineer
- Sikh
- Vegetarian
- Citizen
Matches 7 of 7 of your preferences
For women · free, always
Nobody sees your photos until you decide.
You decide who can find you: every verified man, only men who match your preferences, or nobody but your matchmaker. Your photos stay hidden until you approve someone. You never get a bill. And you can search too; every man here showed his ID before you ever see him.
This is how you appear to men until you say yes
Your search
SampleVerified men who match your preferences. Newest first. Women whose preferences you match, and who chose to be found. Newest first.
Amrit, 31
Melbourne · GP
- Sikh
- Punjabi
- PR
Matches 6 of 7 of your preferences
Gurpreet, 28
Dandenong · Electrician, own business
- Sikh
- Vegetarian
- Citizen
Matches 6 of 7 of your preferences
Manveer, 30
Melbourne · Data analyst
- Sikh
- Punjabi
- Citizen
Matches 5 of 7 of your preferences
Photo on her approval
Simran, 27
Melbourne · Physiotherapist
- Sikh
- Vegetarian
- PR
Matches 7 of 7 of your preferences
5 of 5 interests left today
Photo on her approval
Harleen, 29
Melbourne · Pharmacist
- Sikh
- Punjabi
- Citizen
Matches 6 of 7 of your preferences
4 of 5 interests left today
Photo on her approval
Navjot, 26
Geelong · Primary teacher
- Sikh
- Vegetarian
- Citizen
Matches 6 of 7 of your preferences
3 of 5 interests left today
Photo on her approval
Jasleen, 30
Melbourne · Accountant
- Sikh
- Punjabi
- PR
Matches 5 of 7 of your preferences
2 of 5 interests left today
Every man here is ID-verified. You see his photos; he sees yours only after you approve him. Your phone and email are never shown to anyone. Photos appear when she approves your request. You can send 5 interests a day, so make them count. Her contact details are never shown; she shares them if she wants to.
Structural, not promised
Three things you will never get here.
Every other platform puts privacy on a policy page. We took the three things that drive women away and built the product so they cannot happen.
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A public profile
There is no public profile page for anyone, and no man can search until he has shown his ID. You choose who can find you at all; by default it is only men who match your preferences. Your cousin cannot stumble on you here.
- 02
A firehose
Men can send a handful of interests a day, not hundreds. Anything from outside your preferences waits in a separate folder, and you can pause it all for a month without deleting anything.
- 03
A bill
Every feature is free for women, permanently. There is no women’s tier, and we will never charge you to hide your own photographs.
Your matchmaker
Someone in your corner who is not in your circle.
Search yourself, or let her do it; she is free either way. The fear that stops most women joining anything is simple: someone will find out. So the person who knows your file is deliberately someone who will never be at the same wedding.
- A woman from the community
- She has done this for her own cousins and friends for years. Now she is paid to do it properly, for you.
- Never from your city
- Melbourne members are looked after from Auckland and Sydney, and the other way round. She will not run into you at a wedding.
- Bound in writing
- Every matchmaker signs a confidentiality agreement before she sees a single file, and every time she opens yours it is logged.
- Yours to change
- Ask for a different matchmaker at any time. You do not have to give a reason.
- If she recognises you
- She hands your file to a colleague the same day, and tells you she has done it.
How it works for you
Three steps, none of them a form.
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01
Join in two minutes
First name, city, email. No photos needed to start. When you do add them, they are private by default and stay that way.
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02
Choose who can find you
All verified men, only men who match your preferences, or nobody but your matchmaker. The default is preferences-only. Change it whenever you like.
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03
Search, or be found
Search verified men yourself and see his photo before he sees yours. Or let a few interests a day come to you. Say no and he is never told you looked.
Family
Your family, on your terms.
Most of us want our parents involved and none of us want them running the search. You decide what they see, and when.
- Family View
- A read-only page you can send your mother on WhatsApp. You choose exactly what is on it. She needs no account.
- Second opinion
- Let a sister or a friend leave private notes on an introduction that only you can see.
- Nothing behind your back
- Nobody, including family, can create or run a profile for you. Your account exists only because you made it.
Delete means delete. One tap removes your profile, your photos and your conversations. We keep nothing, and you will never get a “we miss you” email.
Questions women ask us
Can men browse me?
Only the ones you allow. By default, only verified men who match your stated preferences can find you. You can open that up, or close it to matchmaker-only, at any time.
Do men see my name?
First name only, and only men who match your preferences and have verified their ID. Your surname, your phone number and your email are never shown to anyone.
Do I have to upload photos?
No. You can join and receive introductions without any. When you add photos, each man sees them only after you have said yes to him specifically.
What if I recognise someone I’m introduced to?
Tell your matchmaker. The introduction is withdrawn, he is never told why, and she makes a note so it does not happen again.
Could my matchmaker be someone I know?
No. Matchmakers never serve their own city, and if one recognises you she hands your file over the same day.
Is it really free?
Yes. There is no women’s paid tier and nothing is held back. Men pay, because a platform where women actually reply is worth paying for.
What can my parents see?
Whatever you put on your Family View link, and nothing else. They cannot log in as you.
Join free.
Melbourne and Auckland first. Leave your email and we will tell you the moment your city opens. Nobody sees anything until you decide.
You’re on the list.
We’ll email you once, when we open in your city. If you left a number, a matchmaker — never someone from your own city — will call to introduce herself.