For men · from $29.99 a month

A reply here means something.

Everywhere else you are one of ten men for every woman, and a good share of the women are not real. Here every man shows government ID before he can search, women join because they choose who can find them, and a matchmaker is there when you would rather someone made the approach for you.

This is your search. Photos appear when she says yes.

Your search

Sample
  • Melbourne + 50 km
  • Sikh
  • 27–33
  • Vegetarian
  • Citizen or PR
  • Melbourne + 50 km
  • Sikh
  • 25–30
  • Vegetarian
  • Any status

Verified men who match your preferences. Newest first. Women whose preferences you match, and who chose to be found. Newest first.

ID verified

Jasdeep, 29

Melbourne · Civil engineer

  • Sikh
  • Vegetarian
  • Citizen

Matches 7 of 7 of your preferences

ID verified

Amrit, 31

Melbourne · GP

  • Sikh
  • Punjabi
  • PR

Matches 6 of 7 of your preferences

ID verified

Gurpreet, 28

Dandenong · Electrician, own business

  • Sikh
  • Vegetarian
  • Citizen

Matches 6 of 7 of your preferences

ID verified

Manveer, 30

Melbourne · Data analyst

  • Sikh
  • Punjabi
  • Citizen

Matches 5 of 7 of your preferences

Photo on her approval

Simran, 27

Melbourne · Physiotherapist

  • Sikh
  • Vegetarian
  • PR

Matches 7 of 7 of your preferences

5 of 5 interests left today

Photo on her approval

Harleen, 29

Melbourne · Pharmacist

  • Sikh
  • Punjabi
  • Citizen

Matches 6 of 7 of your preferences

4 of 5 interests left today

Photo on her approval

Navjot, 26

Geelong · Primary teacher

  • Sikh
  • Vegetarian
  • Citizen

Matches 6 of 7 of your preferences

3 of 5 interests left today

Photo on her approval

Jasleen, 30

Melbourne · Accountant

  • Sikh
  • Punjabi
  • PR

Matches 5 of 7 of your preferences

2 of 5 interests left today

Every man here is ID-verified. You see his photos; he sees yours only after you approve him. Your phone and email are never shown to anyone. Photos appear when she approves your request. You can send 5 interests a day, so make them count. Her contact details are never shown; she shares them if she wants to.

10 : 1
men per woman on the existing platforms*
1.15 : 1
the real ratio in the census
0
women shown to unverified men

*Founder research on the largest existing platforms, Australia & New Zealand, 2026. Sikh population, ABS Census 2021.

The problem

Why you never hear back.

It is not you. The census says our community is almost evenly split. The platforms show ten men for every woman because they built something women refuse to use.

  1. 01

    She is drowning

    The woman you wrote to got three hundred interests that week. Yours was the two hundredth. She stopped opening the app before she reached it.

  2. 02

    You are competing with ghosts

    A working fake profile takes minutes to make. Some of the women you paid to contact do not exist, and the ones who do have learned to assume you don’t either.

  3. 03

    Nobody speaks for you

    The platforms replaced the matchmaker with a search box. There is no one to make your case, ask what she is actually looking for, or tell you honestly why it is a no.

What is different for you

A search where she actually replies.

Five interests a day, to women who chose to be found by you, who see your ID verification before they see anything else. Fewer messages sent. Far more answered.

Verified or invisible
You are verified once, in three minutes, and after that every woman who sees your card knows you are real. That is the reason she reads on.
A search worth doing
You see the women who chose to be found by men like you, and each card tells you how many of your preferences she matches. No leaderboard, no endless scroll.
Her phone number is never on the page
Contact details are never displayed, at any tier. When she shares hers with you, it means something.
Her photos when she says yes
Not blurred as a tease. Withheld until she decides, which is the reason she is here at all.
An honest no
If she passes, you hear it from your matchmaker within the week, sometimes with a reason. You are never left on read.
Someone in your corner
On the Vichola tier your matchmaker approaches families for you, handles the awkward parts, and negotiates timelines and expectations on your behalf.

Pricing

You pay for a matchmaker, not a search box.

All prices in AUD, GST included. Cancel in one tap.

Search

$29.99 AUD / month

Search verified profiles yourself, with the controls that make women reply.

  • Government ID + liveness verification before you can search
  • Search and filter every woman who chose to be found by men like you
  • Five interests a day, so hers is an inbox and not a firehose
  • Photo requests; her photos appear when she approves you
  • Private messaging after she accepts
  • Cultural filters: community, diet, visa status, relocation
  • Family View link to share with your parents
  • Cancel anytime, in one tap
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Vichola

$199 AUD / month

Everything in Search, plus a named matchmaker who searches, approaches and negotiates for you.

  • Everything in Search
  • A named matchmaker, assigned to you
  • 45-minute intake call to understand what you actually want
  • She searches on your behalf, including women visible only through a matchmaker
  • Her approaches don’t count against your daily interests
  • She handles the awkward conversations: expectations, timelines, families
  • Written reason with every introduction, both ways
  • Direct line to her, not a support queue
Talk to a matchmaker

Founding members

Your first three months of Search are free, and billing starts only when your city opens. You are never charged for a waitlist.

The Success Refund

Marry someone you met here and we refund up to 12 months of Search. We would rather you leave married than stay subscribed.

Full pricing and FAQ →

What we ask of you

Three things. None of them optional.

  1. 01

    Verify

    Government ID and a live selfie, before anyone sees you. It takes about three minutes.

  2. 02

    Tell the truth in the intake

    Your matchmaker will find out anyway, and she would rather find out from you.

  3. 03

    Be patient

    Replies come at the pace women say yes, not on demand. Five good interests a week beat fifty ignored ones, and early on a city may be small. Every reply will be a real one.

Questions men ask us

Can I browse profiles?
Yes, once you are verified. You see the women who chose to be visible to men matching their preferences. Some women choose matchmaker-only; the Vichola tier is how you reach them.
Why only five interests a day?
Because three hundred interests a week is why women delete the other apps. Five means yours is read. Your matchmaker’s approaches on the Vichola tier don’t count against it.
How many women are on it?
We open a city when there are enough verified women in it for introductions to be real, and not before. Until your city opens you are on the waitlist and you are not charged. When we tell you a number it will be a real one.
When do I see her photos?
When she says yes to you. She sees yours first, along with your verification and your matchmaker’s note.
How many introductions will I get?
As many as genuinely fit. Your matchmaker is paid for outcomes, not volume, so she will not send you someone just to make a number.
Can my parents pay?
Yes. Gifting a membership is built in. You own the account, and it exists only because you agreed to it.
What does the Vichola tier actually do?
A named matchmaker represents you: she approaches families, handles expectations and timelines, and carries the difficult answers both ways. It is the role that has always existed in our community. We hired it back.
Is there a refund?
Cancel any time and you are not charged again. And on Search, marry someone you met here and we refund up to 12 months of fees.

Be a founding member.

Melbourne and Auckland first. Leave your email, verify when your city opens, and your first three months of Search are on us.

I am joining as

One email when we open in your city, and a call from your matchmaker if you asked for one. Nothing else, and you can delete your details at any time.