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Matrimony for the Indian community in Australia & New Zealand

Nobody sees your photos until you decide.

Women are never listed, never browsed, and never charged. Every man is government-ID verified before anyone sees him. A real matchmaker makes each introduction and tells you why.

This is what you receive

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Harpreet · your matchmaker, Auckland

Introduction 2 of 3 this weekOne introduction · she has already seen your profile

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ID + liveness verified

Simran hasn’t shared her photos with you yet.

They appear the moment she says yes. She has already seen yours.

Simran shared her photos with you · just now

Jasdeep, 29Simran, 27

MelbourneMelbourne

Civil engineer · 5′11″Physiotherapist · 5′4″

  • Sikh
  • Punjabi
  • Vegetarian
  • Citizen
  • Sikh
  • Punjabi
  • Vegetarian
  • PR

Why Harpreet thinks so

“You both said Sundays at your parents’ aren’t negotiable. He’s the one who cooks in his flat, which you said mattered. And you asked for someone who has built something — he started his own firm at 26 and still does the Saturday langar shift.”“She wants someone who has done hard things — you moved here at twelve and built a firm. You both cook, you both keep Sundays for family, and she is the first person I have spoken to who also thinks Hokitika is underrated.”

Something to ask him about: the six months he spent in Hokitika.

He can’t see your photos or message you unless you say yes.

Simran decides whether this goes further. You’ll hear either way within a week — Harpreet carries the answer, not an app notification.

Harpreet has opened a conversation for you both. She’ll check in after your first call.

10 : 1
men per woman on the existing platforms*
1.15 : 1
the real ratio in the census
0
profiles shown before verification

*Founder research on the largest existing platforms, Australia & New Zealand, 2026. Sikh population, ABS Census 2021.

01

Her photos stay veiled

until she says yes. His are visible to her from the start — he is the one who was verified.

02

The reason is written down

in the matchmaker’s own words. No compatibility percentage pretending to be science.

03

Three a week, at most

and she can pause for a month without losing anything.

04

“No” is the end of it

No “he viewed you” notification, no nudges, no streaks, no second ask.

The problem

The women exist. They've just stopped showing up.

The census says our community is almost evenly split. Every platform shows ten men for every woman. The gap isn't demographic. It's what those platforms do to her.

  1. 01

    She is put on display

    Her photo sits in a public grid that anyone can scroll, including her cousin, her colleague, and the man from the gurdwara. In a community this small, that is the whole reason she never signs up.

  2. 02

    She gets a firehose

    Three hundred unread interests in the first week, most from people who never read her profile. Nobody can process that, so she stops opening the app, and then she deletes it.

  3. 03

    Nobody represents her

    The platforms replaced the matchmaker with a search box. There is no one to make an approach on her behalf, ask the awkward questions, or carry a "no" back without anybody losing face.

So we removed all three.

How it works

Different for her. Different for him.

For her · free, always

  1. 1

    Join in two minutes

    No photos required to start. When you add them, they are private by default and stay that way until you approve each person individually.

  2. 2

    Your matchmaker calls you

    A woman from our team — never from your own city, and bound by a confidentiality agreement — learns what you actually want.

  3. 3

    Up to three introductions a week

    Each with a written reason. Say yes, say no, or pause for a month. There is no inbox to fall behind on.

Join free

For him · from $29.99/month

  1. 1

    Apply and verify

    Government ID plus a live selfie check before anyone sees you. It takes three minutes and it is the reason a reply here means something.

  2. 2

    Tell us what you want

    A proper intake — values, family, timeline, dealbreakers — rather than a filter panel. No one here is scrolled past.

  3. 3

    Introductions come to you

    There is no directory of women to browse. You receive curated introductions, each with a reason, and a conversation opens only when she says yes.

Apply to join

The Vichola

Somebody who speaks for you.

The vichola is the person who has always done this work in our community — knows both families, makes the approach, asks what nobody wants to ask directly. Every platform quietly removed that role and handed you a search box. We hired it back.

She is a real person

Your matchmaker is a named woman from the community, paid properly for the work, and you can ask for someone else without giving a reason.

Never from your own city

Melbourne members are looked after from Auckland and Sydney, and the reverse. She will not run into you at a wedding.

She negotiates on your behalf

On the Vichola tier she approaches families for you, handles expectations and timelines, and carries the difficult answers both ways.

Software helps her, not replaces her

Our tools keep her notes, remember what you said, and make sure you never repeat yourself. The judgement is hers.

Built in, not promised

Privacy you don't have to trust us on.

Most platforms put privacy on a policy page. We put it in the structure, so it holds even on a bad day.

Read the full safety approach →
Private by default
Photos are hidden until you approve a specific person. Not a paid feature. Not a toggle you have to find.
No directory of women
There is no page where men scroll through women. It does not exist, so it cannot leak, be scraped or be screenshotted.
Verified or invisible
Government ID and a liveness check for every man before he is introduced to anyone. Unverified profiles are shown to no one.
No inbox
A maximum of three introductions a week, each with a reason. Turn them off for a month without deleting anything.
Family View link
A curated, read-only profile you can send your parents on WhatsApp. They see what you choose. No account needed.
Gone in one tap
Delete your profile and it is deleted. No retention, no "reactivate your account" email six months later.

Pricing

She pays nothing. He pays for a matchmaker, not a search box.

Women

Free, always

Every feature. No paid upgrade. No exceptions.

Men · Search

$29.99 AUD/month

Verified membership and curated introductions, self-directed.

Men · Vichola

$199 AUD/month

A dedicated matchmaker who represents you and negotiates on your behalf.

The Success Refund: marry someone you met here and we refund up to 12 months of Search.

Full pricing and FAQ →

Be among the first.

We are opening Melbourne and Auckland first, one matchmaker at a time. Founding members get their first three months of Search free; women are free regardless.

I am joining as

One email when we open in your city, and a call from your matchmaker if you asked for one. Nothing else, and you can delete your details at any time.